Sometimes a person can truly do with a good pick me up when they are having a tough day. The sudden appearance of champagne truffles as gifts on their desk can bring about a sense of acknowledgement associated with the art of giving.
With living a long life comes experiences which are part of the surprise package of life. Some of these will naturally not be good, such as losing a loved on or even losing a job. However, most of them are great in that they are the joy bringers when darkness threatens to prevail and bring about its doom and gloom. The view on surprises in general has divided many people as some like them while others see them as a nuisance which often awakens feelings of guilt.
The emotion stigma or attachment to the art of giving can leave people feeling confused. Fortunately people are not scared to express themselves and informing others of their likes and dislikes. Otherwise there would be constant war going on in homes around the world due those empathetic people who cannot resist the temptation to actually give to others. It is never a good thing to try and force your views onto others.
It takes a lot of effort and consideration to get someone a gift, especially if you are not too clued up about what makes them tick. People are always trying to get this right since birthdays and other special occasions warrant this. Sadly, there is no magic trick and the only way to get the best results is through talking to the person. Inquiring what they like and don't like will give you the best ideas if you find generating them yourself seems to be the hardest task. Take pleasure in it too.
Compromise and compassion for the relationship is important, regardless of whether it is a platonic or romantic one. When people fail to acknowledge the needs of others due to their own upbringing and selfish desires, they soon end up alone. They then wonder why this is happening to them without spending time to evaluate the root cause of their problems. Even the most pristine and happy seeming person has problems.
However, this empathy often backfires because they in turn kill their own inner carer. Some people are able to express how they feel through words; others use actions in order to achieve this. Limiting another's ability to use their own medium of expression can prove to be a detrimental way to operate the relationship. A solution that can be used is for you to learn how to deal with the emotions that surprise gifts bring up.
Stepping outside the realm that one resides in, helps to improve the things that need changing. Making demands of your partner to be the one to provide you with the happiness you seek is often a selfish and childish outlook.
Making too many unrealistic demands on a partner is a sure way of forcing them to go astray. While they may hold onto the feelings of loyalty that they feel toward the relationship, sometimes, this is not enough to let them stay. Allowing them to grow gives the relationship the strong foundation is needs.
With living a long life comes experiences which are part of the surprise package of life. Some of these will naturally not be good, such as losing a loved on or even losing a job. However, most of them are great in that they are the joy bringers when darkness threatens to prevail and bring about its doom and gloom. The view on surprises in general has divided many people as some like them while others see them as a nuisance which often awakens feelings of guilt.
The emotion stigma or attachment to the art of giving can leave people feeling confused. Fortunately people are not scared to express themselves and informing others of their likes and dislikes. Otherwise there would be constant war going on in homes around the world due those empathetic people who cannot resist the temptation to actually give to others. It is never a good thing to try and force your views onto others.
It takes a lot of effort and consideration to get someone a gift, especially if you are not too clued up about what makes them tick. People are always trying to get this right since birthdays and other special occasions warrant this. Sadly, there is no magic trick and the only way to get the best results is through talking to the person. Inquiring what they like and don't like will give you the best ideas if you find generating them yourself seems to be the hardest task. Take pleasure in it too.
Compromise and compassion for the relationship is important, regardless of whether it is a platonic or romantic one. When people fail to acknowledge the needs of others due to their own upbringing and selfish desires, they soon end up alone. They then wonder why this is happening to them without spending time to evaluate the root cause of their problems. Even the most pristine and happy seeming person has problems.
However, this empathy often backfires because they in turn kill their own inner carer. Some people are able to express how they feel through words; others use actions in order to achieve this. Limiting another's ability to use their own medium of expression can prove to be a detrimental way to operate the relationship. A solution that can be used is for you to learn how to deal with the emotions that surprise gifts bring up.
Stepping outside the realm that one resides in, helps to improve the things that need changing. Making demands of your partner to be the one to provide you with the happiness you seek is often a selfish and childish outlook.
Making too many unrealistic demands on a partner is a sure way of forcing them to go astray. While they may hold onto the feelings of loyalty that they feel toward the relationship, sometimes, this is not enough to let them stay. Allowing them to grow gives the relationship the strong foundation is needs.